1 00:00:00,450 --> 00:00:07,620 Being on time, being late reflects a specific type of procrastination, namely a delay, and moving 2 00:00:07,620 --> 00:00:13,370 ourselves from one place to another by a deadline for these principles. 3 00:00:13,380 --> 00:00:21,540 If you want to improve your factuality, be realistic about the time required time, how long it actually 4 00:00:21,540 --> 00:00:23,290 takes to reach your destination. 5 00:00:23,580 --> 00:00:30,540 Be sure to factor in time for incidentals, like saying goodbye to your family and give yourself a buffer 6 00:00:30,540 --> 00:00:38,130 for that and expected, for example, traffic delays so you don't underestimate the actual time required 7 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,940 count backward from when you need to be there. 8 00:00:42,060 --> 00:00:47,310 Calculate when you need to leave based on how long it takes to reach your destination. 9 00:00:47,580 --> 00:00:54,840 For example, if you need to arrive by six p.m. and it takes 45 minutes, including your buffer blood 10 00:00:54,840 --> 00:01:03,810 to leave no letter, no later than five p.m., set an alarm with enough time to avoid being late. 11 00:01:04,110 --> 00:01:10,290 Avoid losing track of time by setting a reminder which can also help you relax, since you know you 12 00:01:10,290 --> 00:01:13,030 will be prompted when it's time to go. 13 00:01:13,980 --> 00:01:18,640 Be careful about setting your clock or watch ahead to help you be on time. 14 00:01:19,050 --> 00:01:27,720 This is strategy often backfires because we know our watch is fast and we can end up disregarding disregarding 15 00:01:27,720 --> 00:01:28,820 it altogether. 16 00:01:29,280 --> 00:01:35,730 Avoid starting an activity close to time to be aware of trying to squeeze in one more activity before 17 00:01:35,730 --> 00:01:37,800 leaving for your destination. 18 00:01:38,070 --> 00:01:45,270 Even if you think it will take just a minute, there is a good chance it will take more time than you 19 00:01:45,270 --> 00:01:54,420 have and it end up making you late and bring things to do it in case you're early. 20 00:01:54,810 --> 00:02:00,990 If you're afraid of being early and then wasting time with nothing to do, bring a book or some other 21 00:02:00,990 --> 00:02:04,050 enjoyable or productive way to pass the time. 22 00:02:04,050 --> 00:02:11,280 If you're early, combine these strategies with other CBT principles to maximize your chances of being 23 00:02:11,280 --> 00:02:11,790 on time. 24 00:02:12,060 --> 00:02:19,170 For example, use this the cognitive technique of reminding yourself how much nicer it is to see your 25 00:02:19,170 --> 00:02:26,040 GP estimating that you will arrive five minutes earlier versus five minutes late.